My dear Natural Magicians, Happy Spring Equinox!
What a lovely occasion it is when the Vernal Equinox falls on the New Moon. It is an extra-special time for fresh starts!
I will definitely be using the rest of today and the upcoming week for some Spring cleaning. I have discounted a number of my products that might help you do the same! Follow any link below to buy at the discounted prices for the first week of Spring!
Before I get going on that cluttered desk, I will start up with one of the Fresh Start candles. These are infused with the same essential oil blend I use in the New Moon magick oil and New Moon candles.
The only difference is in the manufacture timing. The New Moon products
are made on the evening of the New Moon (tonight) and the Fresh Start
is made on the Wednesday or Sunday immediately following the New Moon,
to add the Planetary signatures. I thought the Fresh Start labels might
be more appealing to, hmm, less witchy practitioners. Does anybody think
I should add a Fresh Start oil to the magick oils for the same reason?
For Spring cleaning purposes, the lemony-fresh scent of Van Van formulations are hard to beat. This traditional blend is so useful that I incorporate it into three forms of product:
Van Van oil for direct anointing,
Van Van candles for providing a blessing and renewing ambiance or for candle magick workings,
Van Van floor wash for getting down into the baseboards, and Van Van room spray for a blast of freshness. ALL DISCOUNTED FOR THE FIRST WEEK OF SPRING!
Once I clear off that desk and get everything filed, mailed and sorted, I will decide if I want to use Altar oil or Blessing oil
to wipe it clean, and clear away the stale chi my procrastinations have
caused. If you think about it, many of us spend so much time at our
desks, that this most functional and mundane piece of furniture becomes
infused with our attention and energies...an altar! If I treat my desk
as an altar, everything that issues from it becomes transformed from
burden to blessing!
By the time you get this, it might be too late to incorporate Ostara oil or
Ostara incense
to your Equinox observation, but I'm offering the same discount, since
they are just all around nice scents for Spring and also, Ostara blends would also be appropriate for any Easter celebration. I'd be happy to label them "Easter oil" or Easter incense" for you, just make a note on your order.
Happy Spring everyone!
Natural Magick Shop is on FaceBook!
Natural Magick Shop has a blog!
Best Witches,
Cedar Stevens
Natural Magick Shop
March 20, 2015

Friday, March 20, 2015
Wednesday, October 1, 2014
Magick by Intention: Personal Power and Strength

The Will of the individual does nevertheless come into conflict with the Good of the People. Institutes of Law, Learning and Religion seek to harmonize the two poles for a balance. Modern spiritual practitioners (as well as ordinary public opinion) are moving towards wholistic integration which recognizes that any action that causes harm to another harms the Whole, and therefor harms the Self. True personal power then, finds its Strength in the Ecology and Ecosystem of The World.
Fire is the lead Element of Strength and Power, giving us the energy to do the Great Work. Sun is the Planetary Power that energizes the Solar Plexus, connecting Will to Destiny.
Short list: Power oil, Power incense, Major Mojo kit, High John the Conqueror oil, High John the Conqueror incense, High John the Conqueror candles, Witch Power bath herbs.
Oils
13
Abramelin
Dragon's Blood
Fire
High John the Conqueror
Mars
Power
Sun
Incenses
Abramelin
Fire
High John the Conqueror
Mars
Power
Sun
Dragon's Blood resin
Frankincense resin
Candles
Dragon's Blood
High John the Conqueror
Bath Magick
Witch Power
Mojo Kits
Major Mojo
Room Sprays
Aura Doctor
Deity oils
Aradia
Babalon
Inanna
Isis
Lucifer
Sekhmet
Solomon
Zeus
Monday, July 28, 2014
NEW MOON NEWS with COUPONS! from Natural Magick Shop
My Dearest Natural Magicians,
(SPOILER: SALES COUPONS OFFERED BELOW!)
We are approaching the Sabbat of Lughnasadh (Bless the Gaelic language, I've heard it pronounced loo-NAH-sah and LUN-ah-sah, but I'm sure someone would correct me!) which is a feast day of the Celtic sun god Lugh, and a celebration of the First Harvest of grains. After the harvest, Lughnasadh observances progressed into footraces and other athletic competitions. Fine, if you are in Ireland, but here in central Texas the heat of summer is in full force. You won't find most modern NeoPagans here working in the fields or challenging each other to arm wrestle in the sun to honor Lugh! Translation of the traditions of one culture into a different climate involves some creativity. For me, it has been a good time of year to stay inside (except for trips to the pool!) and work on...a whole'nuther website!
Its called Storenvy, and while it will never have the personality of the main Natural Magick Shop website, it offers a few features that I hope y'all will take advantage of!
1) COUPONS!!! To celebrate the launch of this shop, I am offering a "Games of Lugh" 15% off coupon! All you have to do is type in LUGH in the "Apply discount code" field, which is in the checkout.
2) Storenvy launches directly from my FaceBook page. So if you are on the Natural Magick Shop FaceBook Page to tell me nice things about my products ;) you can click "Store" from the top bar and get right into my Storenvy shop.
3) Organization!!! On the Storenvy Natural Magick Shop , I have the potions organized in "collections" according to intention of use. All of the Love potions in one place! Looking for a job? On the "Money, Employment and Prosperity" page you can find all the stuff you looking for. Now this is a longer-term goal for the Natural Magick Shop that me and my WebWizard will get around to eventually, but I was able to do it all by my ownself on the Storenvy site.
I for sure have not added all 300+ Natural Magick Shop products to the Storenvy site. But! you can make me work for these sales. If you don't find one of my potions on the Storenvy site, just send me an email and I will add it for you just as fast as I can sprint to my computer!
So come celebrate Lughnasadh with me on Storenvy and play Games of Lugh and collect your 15% discount as your trophy! It will be good through August 3nd, since Lughnasadh is celebrated on August 1st, 2nd, and/or 3rd.
Best Witches,
Cedar Stevens
Natural Magick Shop
July 27, 2014
(SPOILER: SALES COUPONS OFFERED BELOW!)
We are approaching the Sabbat of Lughnasadh (Bless the Gaelic language, I've heard it pronounced loo-NAH-sah and LUN-ah-sah, but I'm sure someone would correct me!) which is a feast day of the Celtic sun god Lugh, and a celebration of the First Harvest of grains. After the harvest, Lughnasadh observances progressed into footraces and other athletic competitions. Fine, if you are in Ireland, but here in central Texas the heat of summer is in full force. You won't find most modern NeoPagans here working in the fields or challenging each other to arm wrestle in the sun to honor Lugh! Translation of the traditions of one culture into a different climate involves some creativity. For me, it has been a good time of year to stay inside (except for trips to the pool!) and work on...a whole'nuther website!
Its called Storenvy, and while it will never have the personality of the main Natural Magick Shop website, it offers a few features that I hope y'all will take advantage of!
1) COUPONS!!! To celebrate the launch of this shop, I am offering a "Games of Lugh" 15% off coupon! All you have to do is type in LUGH in the "Apply discount code" field, which is in the checkout.
2) Storenvy launches directly from my FaceBook page. So if you are on the Natural Magick Shop FaceBook Page to tell me nice things about my products ;) you can click "Store" from the top bar and get right into my Storenvy shop.
3) Organization!!! On the Storenvy Natural Magick Shop , I have the potions organized in "collections" according to intention of use. All of the Love potions in one place! Looking for a job? On the "Money, Employment and Prosperity" page you can find all the stuff you looking for. Now this is a longer-term goal for the Natural Magick Shop that me and my WebWizard will get around to eventually, but I was able to do it all by my ownself on the Storenvy site.
I for sure have not added all 300+ Natural Magick Shop products to the Storenvy site. But! you can make me work for these sales. If you don't find one of my potions on the Storenvy site, just send me an email and I will add it for you just as fast as I can sprint to my computer!
So come celebrate Lughnasadh with me on Storenvy and play Games of Lugh and collect your 15% discount as your trophy! It will be good through August 3nd, since Lughnasadh is celebrated on August 1st, 2nd, and/or 3rd.
Best Witches,
Cedar Stevens
Natural Magick Shop
July 27, 2014
Saturday, May 31, 2014
NEW MOON NEWS with Natural Magick Shop May 31, 2014

SUMMER SOLSTICE SPECIALS !!!
CEDAR WILL BE OUT OF TOWN JUNE 4TH-21ST, visiting her parents in Mexico.
Place your orders before June 4th if you want your stuff before the 21st!
Orders placed during June 4th-21st will not be processed until June 22nd and 23rd.
BUT! you can get EXTRA FREE STUFF if you order June 4th-21st, see below!
This past month of May has seen a lot of
change for Natural Magick Shop. The beginning was quite sad, with the passing of Daphne and Emo, my feline familiar and shop kitties. My Cat oil formulation was especially guided by Daphne; her discrimination, the smell of her fur, and her total hedonistic abandon for Catnip. Cat oil is now dedicated to Daphne, and for the whole month of June it is on special for $9 instead of $13. Just use the Special Order link to fill in this sale price. My friend Monica Knighton's new children's book The Magician's Cat was also KickStarted in part by Natural Magicians as tribute to Daphne and Emo. The KickStart campaign was successful, so you can't donate anymore, but you can buy the book, it's awesome!
The really positive change is that Natural Magick Shop has a new laboratory! I get to sit in a *real chair* to make potions now! My old lab was in an attic with a door too small to get a table into, so I had to sit on the floor to work on a coffee table. The new space is much better arranged, and prior to the move I mopped the new lab and the whole house with the Van Van Floor Wash, and I can't tell you how fresh, clean and cool my new lab and house feel, and the flea-free part is nice too! Try the Van Van Floor Wash for the month of June for a special introductory price of $8, again, use the Special Order link to get the discount price.
"Are you a good witch or a bad witch?" Ever got that one? My snarky response has always been, "Yes...!" But here I confess dear Natural Magicians, the other day I went to make more of my new Tarot formulations, The Fool and Magician. And I could not find where I had written down the formulas. THIS makes me a very Bad Witch, I lost these two great potion formulas and will have to re-invent them! Or maybe they will show up after the move is all settled. (Please Faeries, please! :)
Okay, the Summer Solstice FREE STUFF!
If you order June 4th-21st, here is what you do: include a note with your order indicating any resin, incense or magick oil that you would like for free with any order over $20. If you order over $30 you ALREADY get free stuff, but June 5th-21st you can get an additional free item just by asking for it in a note. This applies only to resins, incense, or magick oils categories of products, NOT deity or spirit guide oils. Enjoy!
Visit Natural Magick Shop is on FaceBook!
Best Witches,
Cedar Stevens
Natural Magick Shop
May 30, 2014
Monday, November 25, 2013
Thank You! For Seven Years of Natural Magick Shop!
Dear Natural Magicians,
Thanksgiving Day, 2013 marks the 7th birthday of Natural Magick Shop! I am so grateful to all of you for keeping alive this business, and the dream and magick that animate it!
To celebrate, I want to offer a $7 discount on my soon-to-be off-the-presses Natural Magick Shop Tshirt! My dear friend and genius artist William Jones of Teed Shirts did a logo reboot for Natural Magick Shop, and it looks great! The Tshirt is a black T with this logo in a white oval.
Here is how to get the discount (and the Tshirt!): go to my website and click the Special Order link. Enter "Thanksgiving!" and then your Tshirt size in the "name of special item field" and then $13 for a standard men's T in sizes small, medium, large and XL and $18 for XXL. Regular prices will be $20 for S,M,L,and XL, and $25 for XXL (and XXXL, which I don't have yet for the initial print run). This sale runs for 7 days, until the night of Tuesday Dec. 2nd. One per customer please!
In other news, I will be vending at the Harvest Arts Festival in Bastrop TX on Friday and Saturday Nov. 29th and 30th. You can get the Tshirt discount here in person! Just whisper "Seven Years of Good Luck" into my ear!
New from Natural Magick Shop: Magick Candles! There will soon be a candles section on the website, IF I can keep them in stock. They have been a hit at fairs n festivals, so best to find them in stock at events.
There will be more in the way of holiday arts shows, but until then, all I can say is Thank You!
Thanksgiving Day, 2013 marks the 7th birthday of Natural Magick Shop! I am so grateful to all of you for keeping alive this business, and the dream and magick that animate it!
To celebrate, I want to offer a $7 discount on my soon-to-be off-the-presses Natural Magick Shop Tshirt! My dear friend and genius artist William Jones of Teed Shirts did a logo reboot for Natural Magick Shop, and it looks great! The Tshirt is a black T with this logo in a white oval.
Here is how to get the discount (and the Tshirt!): go to my website and click the Special Order link. Enter "Thanksgiving!" and then your Tshirt size in the "name of special item field" and then $13 for a standard men's T in sizes small, medium, large and XL and $18 for XXL. Regular prices will be $20 for S,M,L,and XL, and $25 for XXL (and XXXL, which I don't have yet for the initial print run). This sale runs for 7 days, until the night of Tuesday Dec. 2nd. One per customer please!
In other news, I will be vending at the Harvest Arts Festival in Bastrop TX on Friday and Saturday Nov. 29th and 30th. You can get the Tshirt discount here in person! Just whisper "Seven Years of Good Luck" into my ear!
New from Natural Magick Shop: Magick Candles! There will soon be a candles section on the website, IF I can keep them in stock. They have been a hit at fairs n festivals, so best to find them in stock at events.
There will be more in the way of holiday arts shows, but until then, all I can say is Thank You!
Friday, October 25, 2013
Magick Candles from Natural Magick Shop

My investigations and process of elimination led me
back to beeswax as the industry to support. The beeswax sheets are thrifty of
the resource, since they incorporate a lot of air into the candle. They come in
a great variety of color, which makes adding color to the magick easy. As I
roll 'em up, each one gets dosed with a mil of NMS essential oil blend, and for
sure, finished off with glitter which totally magnifies the magick! Oh, and
'cause they don't weigh out so much, no extra shipping charges, even for international
customers.

Natural Magick Shop candles are ritually crafted of
beeswax sheets, for a renewable-resource nature-friendly burn. They are infused
with 100% natural essential oils and absolutes appropriate to the intention.
All candles are made on the correct day of the week
for Planetary influences and phase of the Moon for Lunar powers. Feel free to burn
just one and save the rest, or burn one each night for a three day spell, or burn
all of them all at once or one after another for a prolonged working, or share
with friends according to your Will.
These magick candles come three to a package, are
four inches tall, and fit most standard taper holders for 3/4 - 7/8 diameter
taper or household candles. But they do tend to drip (unless you fridge or
freeze them, which I don't usually have the time for) so I like to burn them
and all my candles on the dishes I use for candle magick, little sushi dishes
work great. I also have a large black granite tile, and a beveled mirror for
candle magick, where I can let these or any candles drip and puddle as they will. The glitter does very cool magickal stuff in the molten wax, it tumbles and sparkles, very transfixing/trance-inducible!
Cedar Stevens
October 2013
Saturday, August 17, 2013
Curses! Are You Cursed? Or: Step Away from the Candle
Dear Cedar,
All my life I have felt like I have been living under a curse. A psychic told me that a powerful witch doctor put a spell on my Grandma, and all her children and grandchildren carry this curse. For $2,000, she said she could remove this curse. Do you have anything a bit more affordable?
Please help,
Missionary's Grandchild
Or:
Dear Natural Magick,
My boyfriend's ex-girlfriend put a hex on me. She hates me and doesn't want me to succeed in my relationship. My life has been a living hell for the past three years. Everything goes wrong, nothing works!
What can I do to send this bitch a dose of her own medicine?
Sincerely,
Ex's Psycho's Hexes
Anybody who has worked with me in person knows that I am compassionate to a fault, and I have been accused of doing backbends to make excuses for people. Others know that I am a strong proponent for mental health and a scientific, logic based approach to any personal problem. Step Away from the Candle!
I believe that there are very few real cases of cursing, and I am always skeptical to turn to these sorts of explanations. As you might imagine, over the course of my 20+ years in the magick potions biz I get these sorts of appeals on a regular basis. I can honestly say that in my opinion less than 2% of these cases are possibly related to a curse.
To a fault, humans tend to look for patterns. Some folks have the predisposition to notice bad things more than good things. Put those two together and you have got yourself the makings of a curse!
Lets look at the case of the missionary's grand daughter. It is true that her grandpa took her grandma and her mother (then a small child) into Africa to "baptize the heathen African primitives" into the Christian faith. No doubt, this would have put the missionary family in conflict with the local religious leaders, who already had a rich, ancient, satisfying and powerful faith of their own, thank you very much.
I have no problem believing that the local "witch doctor" put a curse on the missionary and his family. But was it truly successful? Maybe, maybe not. The most important thing is that the missionary family BELIEVED that it was. It is amazing what suppressed guilt feelings will cause one to believe in the name of denial.
Probing deeper into the family history (this story is actually a composite of three similar tales told to me by descendants of missionaries) we hear uglier stuff. Child and spouse abuse, incest and infidelity (e.g. raping the locals or openly taking an African mistress as a means of introducing the Love of God on a more intimate level, uggh!) and quite possibly undiagnosed mental illness. It is easy to see how a narcissistic God complex or delusional schizophrenia might be the cause of or result of a missionary career. And the lifestyle of the missionary, seldom setting down roots, often being in conflict with the target population, no cultural reference or context, harsh frontier lifestyle, are a mental health minefield to the sanest of individuals, and it could bring out the worst in anyone, causing family dysfunction and psychologically unhealthy relationships.
Is the missionary's granddaughter suffering from a multi-generational curse? Perhaps. Did she inherit her grandpa's schizophrenia? Another good guess. I believe that the emotional injuries caused by PTSD are also often passed down the generations culturally, one wounded generation raising the next wounded generation and so forth.
One of my missionary's granddaughters told me this: her mom came back to America, got married and had 5 kids, 2 boys and 3 girls. Both boys died before reaching adulthood of ailments which defied diagnosis. The three girls were all adults now, but each of them suffered from lifelong illnesses which had at best sketchy diagnoses. And all of the diseases involved were of very different natures. IF she was telling me the truth, yeah, even my Capricorn skepticism thinks, "Yeah, that probably is a real curse." (On the other hand, it could be 100% coincidence, or the result of psychosomatic illnesses generated by the emotional scars of the upbringing.) I sent her to a meeting with the Lords of Karma (see below).
Now lets turn to the Curse of the Psycho Ex.
For sure, the Ex hates the new girlfriend, or at least resents her deeply for "stealing her man." She has obviously not let go, and she might be desperate enough to hex the new girlfriend or hire someone to lay the trick. Again the operative function is that the recipient of the curse BELIEVES that they were cursed.
Digging deeper we find that the nature of the curse affects New Girl's boyfriend too, causing him to be emotionally abusive towards her. The boyfriend has also not let go of his ex, and is using their children to maintain unnecessary contact with the Psycho Ex.
Is a curse involved? Or is there a non-magickal explanation? The correct word for this sort of situation is not "curse" it's DRAMA! Are any of the people involved seeking mental health counseling to help them out of their co dependencies and addiction to drama? NO! Because they prefer the denial that allows them to each be victims in their own way, and engage in a three-way emotional pie fight of blame. Are the kids being raised in this environment of unhealthy relationship, and learning everything about it? So sad, so sad.
Another sort of "curse" is what I call Opt-In Victimhood. Many times this is just a case of coincidence, what we call bad luck. I truly believe that coincidences happen (as opposed to the magickal mantra, "There Are No Coincidences") and that bad things do happen to good people, and that there ARE true Innocent Victims (contrasting with a New Age belief that we all somehow "choose our fate," in which case we would even blame the rape victim for her rape or target of racial hatred for getting beaten up by NeoNazis!)
The unfortunate victim of a string of bad luck, or worse, crimes of violence has suffered an emotional injury, or series of them, which weakens their mental health profile. They then turn to a magickal explanation and starts thinking "why me" and one of the easiest so-called "explanations" is, you guessed it! "I'm Cursed!" Presto, an adept transition from Innocent Victim to Victim by Choice. Without treatment or intervention, this can become a lifelong pattern.
Another form of Opt-In Victimhood is the result of one's own series of bad life choices. The self-appointed victim chooses to believe that their misfortunes are a curse, which allows them to be a helpless victim in their own life, and cast blame on someone or something so that they don't have to do any hard work on themselves, to change their behavior and attitudes to be more in line with reality. They refuse to see that their bad luck is of their own doing. Most of these types of Victims by Choice began as Innocent Victims of poor parenting, or being raised in an emotionally unhealthy cultures such as crime and poverty or mentally abusive religious orders. Sometimes they just did not successfully recover from the death of a parent, a nasty divorce, or a traumatic move that took place at a tender age.
Both of these sorts of Opt-In Victimhood play very well into a universal human frailty. It gives us the nearly irresistible opportunity to believe that Everything Is About Me. In this twisted reasoning, being targeted by someone who has cursed you means that at least SOMEone is thinking about you and thinks you are strong and important enough to be worthy of their bad-magick efforts! It also gives the Victim a hall pass on having to do any hard work on their own behalf to heal the emotional wounds the old-fashioned way, with self-help and Muggle counseling.
The last sort of "cursing" I would like to discuss may be a sensitive issue. A lot of people have mild to moderate personality disorders, which range in cause from inherited mental illnesses, neuroses, Asperger's/Autism, depression, congenital deformity, and the like. Even untreated halitosis or homely looks! Truly Innocent Victims, but because of the way the dominant society has treated them, shunned them and chosen to neglect their socialization and social education, these folks are marginalized, lonely, and perhaps cursed in the most heartbreaking interpretation of the term. Many of them think of their curses as being of the more literal variety however. It is the responsibility of the larger dominant society to provide a network of assistance, medical treatment, remedial training and mentoring, in other words the LOVE to exorcise these curses.
NOW! You have read over these types of non-curses. If I have done my work as a Witch, my Magick as a healer, and Fountain of Joy, some part of you has felt like it looked into a mirror and saw yourself for the first time.
Part of you may be hating me because "Cedar just told me I'm crazy!" You may be having a brainsplosion. This information is partly euphoria-inducing, because YAY! you are not cursed. And partly it it is Daunting, because it means that you have to admit some things to yourself that you had deeply hidden, and you might now be challenged do some work and take some action to remedy your situation, or worse yet! have to ask someone for help, and then even worse! listen to them and take some advice!
If this is too difficult, if this magick is too strong for you, and you find yourself grabbing for the Woobie Blankie of Denial, it's okay. You will not be able to put the Apple of the Tree of Knowledge back onto the Tree. And even if you take a bite and find it too healthy for your tastes right now, don't worry, it is a Magick Apple and it won't rot. It will still be there even if you hide it in your closet, waiting for you when you are ready. Just knowing it is there will begin to heal your heart and mind.
There is another reason for Hope. Many of the magickal rituals of Uncrossing, Unhexing, Exorcisms, Banishment and the like also have great value for healing Opt-In Victimhood, and other varieties of self-curse, if you are doing it for yourself. Ritual can be powerfully transformative and can help break though deeply ingrained thinking errors. Many therapists are integrating ritual as a part of their practices. I make a number of high quality, high integrity products traditionally used for Banishing, Uncrossing or Exorcising. (Look at the "Short List" first. Instructions and ideas for traditional and innovative uses are given in the product descriptions (and please return to this article!.) Use these, if it suits your own program of transformation from a cursed or challenged situation, into a resolution of self-determination and achievement of your Higher Purpose.
Regardless of any Opt-In Victimhood situation or a rare actual successful cursing incident, in either case you will need to decide for sure that your True Will and self sovereignty will henceforth be the way your future is shaped. This is where blaming stops and healing begins. See my affirmation chant below...
If you have a friend or family member who believes that they have been cursed, I urge you to NEVER play along or agree with them. Do not validate any delusions. To agree with their self-diagnosis is to jump into the pool they are drowning in. There is no way you can help from that vantage point. Instead, offer them a line that they can climb out with, such as, "There may be more helpful ways of looking at your situation" "I don't believe in curses, I am sure there is a more logical explanation," and "I am with you as long as we can look for real life solutions," or"I hope you will go to a counselor who will help you recognize more realistic causes for your problems."
With that caveat stated, I will recommend either of two strategies, either doing an uncrossing/change your luck procedure such as in my previous blog entry here; cord cutting as ritual hygeine, OR going to the Lords of Karma and ask for them to resolve the situation, or guide you along the path of healing.
The Lords of Karma are visualized as very powerful beings, perhaps a sort of Angel, who are the keepers of our Karmic destiny. In a true curse, you are dealing with either karma that is not your own, or karma that you have not acknowledged. Time to have a hearing with the judges, you might say. There is a great book that deals with these sorts of workings: We Are the Angels: Healing Our Past, Present, and Future With the Lords of Karma by Diane Stein, go get you one now.
Whichever strategy you choose, I also highly recommend regular muggle mental health care and counseling as an adjunct working. A series of life tragedies and or bad luck will cause emotional damage to our psyche, and these wounds are best healed through normal mental health counseling. In other words, you could go to the Lords of Karma and get your sentence commuted, or successfully remove a cross or curse, but still not *feel* any better if your muggle emotional body is still bruised and bleeding from the wounding you have received.
I give to you this affirmation, which is great sung in the shower. I have a tune that I put to it, but feel free to make up your own, just so long as it is victorious sounding. Think Tom Petty anthem style major chords!
Now what comes is my True Will
Now what comes is Right
Guided!
And guarded!
Above and Below
By Earth, Moon, Sun, and Star Light.
Cedar Stevens
(c) 2013
All my life I have felt like I have been living under a curse. A psychic told me that a powerful witch doctor put a spell on my Grandma, and all her children and grandchildren carry this curse. For $2,000, she said she could remove this curse. Do you have anything a bit more affordable?
Please help,
Missionary's Grandchild
Or:
Dear Natural Magick,
My boyfriend's ex-girlfriend put a hex on me. She hates me and doesn't want me to succeed in my relationship. My life has been a living hell for the past three years. Everything goes wrong, nothing works!
What can I do to send this bitch a dose of her own medicine?
Sincerely,
Ex's Psycho's Hexes
Anybody who has worked with me in person knows that I am compassionate to a fault, and I have been accused of doing backbends to make excuses for people. Others know that I am a strong proponent for mental health and a scientific, logic based approach to any personal problem. Step Away from the Candle!
I believe that there are very few real cases of cursing, and I am always skeptical to turn to these sorts of explanations. As you might imagine, over the course of my 20+ years in the magick potions biz I get these sorts of appeals on a regular basis. I can honestly say that in my opinion less than 2% of these cases are possibly related to a curse.
To a fault, humans tend to look for patterns. Some folks have the predisposition to notice bad things more than good things. Put those two together and you have got yourself the makings of a curse!
Lets look at the case of the missionary's grand daughter. It is true that her grandpa took her grandma and her mother (then a small child) into Africa to "baptize the heathen African primitives" into the Christian faith. No doubt, this would have put the missionary family in conflict with the local religious leaders, who already had a rich, ancient, satisfying and powerful faith of their own, thank you very much.
I have no problem believing that the local "witch doctor" put a curse on the missionary and his family. But was it truly successful? Maybe, maybe not. The most important thing is that the missionary family BELIEVED that it was. It is amazing what suppressed guilt feelings will cause one to believe in the name of denial.
Probing deeper into the family history (this story is actually a composite of three similar tales told to me by descendants of missionaries) we hear uglier stuff. Child and spouse abuse, incest and infidelity (e.g. raping the locals or openly taking an African mistress as a means of introducing the Love of God on a more intimate level, uggh!) and quite possibly undiagnosed mental illness. It is easy to see how a narcissistic God complex or delusional schizophrenia might be the cause of or result of a missionary career. And the lifestyle of the missionary, seldom setting down roots, often being in conflict with the target population, no cultural reference or context, harsh frontier lifestyle, are a mental health minefield to the sanest of individuals, and it could bring out the worst in anyone, causing family dysfunction and psychologically unhealthy relationships.
Is the missionary's granddaughter suffering from a multi-generational curse? Perhaps. Did she inherit her grandpa's schizophrenia? Another good guess. I believe that the emotional injuries caused by PTSD are also often passed down the generations culturally, one wounded generation raising the next wounded generation and so forth.
One of my missionary's granddaughters told me this: her mom came back to America, got married and had 5 kids, 2 boys and 3 girls. Both boys died before reaching adulthood of ailments which defied diagnosis. The three girls were all adults now, but each of them suffered from lifelong illnesses which had at best sketchy diagnoses. And all of the diseases involved were of very different natures. IF she was telling me the truth, yeah, even my Capricorn skepticism thinks, "Yeah, that probably is a real curse." (On the other hand, it could be 100% coincidence, or the result of psychosomatic illnesses generated by the emotional scars of the upbringing.) I sent her to a meeting with the Lords of Karma (see below).
Now lets turn to the Curse of the Psycho Ex.
For sure, the Ex hates the new girlfriend, or at least resents her deeply for "stealing her man." She has obviously not let go, and she might be desperate enough to hex the new girlfriend or hire someone to lay the trick. Again the operative function is that the recipient of the curse BELIEVES that they were cursed.
Digging deeper we find that the nature of the curse affects New Girl's boyfriend too, causing him to be emotionally abusive towards her. The boyfriend has also not let go of his ex, and is using their children to maintain unnecessary contact with the Psycho Ex.
Is a curse involved? Or is there a non-magickal explanation? The correct word for this sort of situation is not "curse" it's DRAMA! Are any of the people involved seeking mental health counseling to help them out of their co dependencies and addiction to drama? NO! Because they prefer the denial that allows them to each be victims in their own way, and engage in a three-way emotional pie fight of blame. Are the kids being raised in this environment of unhealthy relationship, and learning everything about it? So sad, so sad.
Another sort of "curse" is what I call Opt-In Victimhood. Many times this is just a case of coincidence, what we call bad luck. I truly believe that coincidences happen (as opposed to the magickal mantra, "There Are No Coincidences") and that bad things do happen to good people, and that there ARE true Innocent Victims (contrasting with a New Age belief that we all somehow "choose our fate," in which case we would even blame the rape victim for her rape or target of racial hatred for getting beaten up by NeoNazis!)
The unfortunate victim of a string of bad luck, or worse, crimes of violence has suffered an emotional injury, or series of them, which weakens their mental health profile. They then turn to a magickal explanation and starts thinking "why me" and one of the easiest so-called "explanations" is, you guessed it! "I'm Cursed!" Presto, an adept transition from Innocent Victim to Victim by Choice. Without treatment or intervention, this can become a lifelong pattern.
Another form of Opt-In Victimhood is the result of one's own series of bad life choices. The self-appointed victim chooses to believe that their misfortunes are a curse, which allows them to be a helpless victim in their own life, and cast blame on someone or something so that they don't have to do any hard work on themselves, to change their behavior and attitudes to be more in line with reality. They refuse to see that their bad luck is of their own doing. Most of these types of Victims by Choice began as Innocent Victims of poor parenting, or being raised in an emotionally unhealthy cultures such as crime and poverty or mentally abusive religious orders. Sometimes they just did not successfully recover from the death of a parent, a nasty divorce, or a traumatic move that took place at a tender age.
Both of these sorts of Opt-In Victimhood play very well into a universal human frailty. It gives us the nearly irresistible opportunity to believe that Everything Is About Me. In this twisted reasoning, being targeted by someone who has cursed you means that at least SOMEone is thinking about you and thinks you are strong and important enough to be worthy of their bad-magick efforts! It also gives the Victim a hall pass on having to do any hard work on their own behalf to heal the emotional wounds the old-fashioned way, with self-help and Muggle counseling.
The last sort of "cursing" I would like to discuss may be a sensitive issue. A lot of people have mild to moderate personality disorders, which range in cause from inherited mental illnesses, neuroses, Asperger's/Autism, depression, congenital deformity, and the like. Even untreated halitosis or homely looks! Truly Innocent Victims, but because of the way the dominant society has treated them, shunned them and chosen to neglect their socialization and social education, these folks are marginalized, lonely, and perhaps cursed in the most heartbreaking interpretation of the term. Many of them think of their curses as being of the more literal variety however. It is the responsibility of the larger dominant society to provide a network of assistance, medical treatment, remedial training and mentoring, in other words the LOVE to exorcise these curses.
NOW! You have read over these types of non-curses. If I have done my work as a Witch, my Magick as a healer, and Fountain of Joy, some part of you has felt like it looked into a mirror and saw yourself for the first time.
Part of you may be hating me because "Cedar just told me I'm crazy!" You may be having a brainsplosion. This information is partly euphoria-inducing, because YAY! you are not cursed. And partly it it is Daunting, because it means that you have to admit some things to yourself that you had deeply hidden, and you might now be challenged do some work and take some action to remedy your situation, or worse yet! have to ask someone for help, and then even worse! listen to them and take some advice!
If this is too difficult, if this magick is too strong for you, and you find yourself grabbing for the Woobie Blankie of Denial, it's okay. You will not be able to put the Apple of the Tree of Knowledge back onto the Tree. And even if you take a bite and find it too healthy for your tastes right now, don't worry, it is a Magick Apple and it won't rot. It will still be there even if you hide it in your closet, waiting for you when you are ready. Just knowing it is there will begin to heal your heart and mind.
There is another reason for Hope. Many of the magickal rituals of Uncrossing, Unhexing, Exorcisms, Banishment and the like also have great value for healing Opt-In Victimhood, and other varieties of self-curse, if you are doing it for yourself. Ritual can be powerfully transformative and can help break though deeply ingrained thinking errors. Many therapists are integrating ritual as a part of their practices. I make a number of high quality, high integrity products traditionally used for Banishing, Uncrossing or Exorcising. (Look at the "Short List" first. Instructions and ideas for traditional and innovative uses are given in the product descriptions (and please return to this article!.) Use these, if it suits your own program of transformation from a cursed or challenged situation, into a resolution of self-determination and achievement of your Higher Purpose.
Regardless of any Opt-In Victimhood situation or a rare actual successful cursing incident, in either case you will need to decide for sure that your True Will and self sovereignty will henceforth be the way your future is shaped. This is where blaming stops and healing begins. See my affirmation chant below...
If you have a friend or family member who believes that they have been cursed, I urge you to NEVER play along or agree with them. Do not validate any delusions. To agree with their self-diagnosis is to jump into the pool they are drowning in. There is no way you can help from that vantage point. Instead, offer them a line that they can climb out with, such as, "There may be more helpful ways of looking at your situation" "I don't believe in curses, I am sure there is a more logical explanation," and "I am with you as long as we can look for real life solutions," or"I hope you will go to a counselor who will help you recognize more realistic causes for your problems."
With that caveat stated, I will recommend either of two strategies, either doing an uncrossing/change your luck procedure such as in my previous blog entry here; cord cutting as ritual hygeine, OR going to the Lords of Karma and ask for them to resolve the situation, or guide you along the path of healing.
The Lords of Karma are visualized as very powerful beings, perhaps a sort of Angel, who are the keepers of our Karmic destiny. In a true curse, you are dealing with either karma that is not your own, or karma that you have not acknowledged. Time to have a hearing with the judges, you might say. There is a great book that deals with these sorts of workings: We Are the Angels: Healing Our Past, Present, and Future With the Lords of Karma by Diane Stein, go get you one now.
Whichever strategy you choose, I also highly recommend regular muggle mental health care and counseling as an adjunct working. A series of life tragedies and or bad luck will cause emotional damage to our psyche, and these wounds are best healed through normal mental health counseling. In other words, you could go to the Lords of Karma and get your sentence commuted, or successfully remove a cross or curse, but still not *feel* any better if your muggle emotional body is still bruised and bleeding from the wounding you have received.
I give to you this affirmation, which is great sung in the shower. I have a tune that I put to it, but feel free to make up your own, just so long as it is victorious sounding. Think Tom Petty anthem style major chords!
Now what comes is my True Will
Now what comes is Right
Guided!
And guarded!
Above and Below
By Earth, Moon, Sun, and Star Light.
Cedar Stevens
(c) 2013
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